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Sounds of Light: Returning to LOVE – Aileen Nealie

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Aileen Nealie is a licensed psychotherapist in the state of California. She has been in the field for 11 years and specializes in Energy Therapies.

 

Returning to LOVE – Because changing your life begins with healing your heart.

The following are but a few of the most common statements individuals will make when referring to their failed and dysfunctional relationships.

 

–         My relationships are a disaster. There is always a crisis.

–         I cannot seem to hold on to a relationship for longer than 1 year.

–         I always pick the wrong person for me.

–         I keep meeting/dating the same person over and over.

–         There is no hope for me; I am just like my parent and/or parents.

–         I have such bad luck with relationships.

–         Everyone thinks I am a _______  (looser, control freak, a mama’s boy, a clingy person).

–         I cannot tell you why I do not have any friends. I just feel nobody likes me.

 

If you find yourself nodding in agreement with any of the above statements, the first step is to realize that you may have been focusing on others too much – discarding what you are reflecting about yourself onto others. I will explain what I mean by this. Because we are energy beings, we transmit onto others how we truly feel about ourselves. Of course, most of this occurs at an unconscious state, since consciously, you would be arguing; “If I do not want crisis, why would I be reflecting and attracting crisis in relationships?” This is how it works. If you are confused, fearful, insecure, angry, sad, disliking yourself, etc., you can count on the fact that will manifest relationships with those that will reinforce these issues. Why? This is not for you to be able to say: “You see, I knew it. I will never choose the right person.” It is the exact opposite. This occurs so that you can become aware of yourself; face the problems; and if you dislike them or want to do better, actually work on change for yourself.

 

Returning to Love is a workshop I have created to help individuals, couples, families, employers; essentially anyone; to fully and permanently restore their hearts from all past negative experiences, pain, self limitations and even issues that began while they were in their mother’s womb. As I see it, this is the only way to start anew and give yourself a chance to recreate your life for the better. It will, in turn; improve your relationships with everyone else. It all starts with you. It all starts with the heart.

 

Aileen Nealie, LMFT, DCEP

www.aileennealietherapies.com

661-510-0219