Life Coach In Santa Clarita: How To Have An Extraordinary Relationship

Posted by: KHTS Community Spotlight in Alex Urbina - Life Leadership, Santa Clarita Latest News October 24, 2019 - 9:00 am 0 305 Views

A life coach in Santa Clarita is giving his insight into how he believes couples who have been together long-term can have an extraordinary relationship after the fun and excitement fades.

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Alex Urbina noted that while most relationships start out fun and exciting, it’s common for long-term relationships to reach a point where they feel “dull” or “dragging” for one or both partners.

“Quite often I’ve heard some couples say, ‘We’re good friends, we love each other, but I’m not sure if (we’re) still in love with each other,’” Urbina said. “That to me is code for, ‘Hey, Alex, I need help because I feel like the connection is not there anymore.’”

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Urbina encouraged someone who may be thinking along these lines not to assume that their partner isn’t right for them because the relationship isn’t extraordinary, and to stop depending on the other person to make it extraordinary.

““If you’re waiting for someone else to cause the experience that you really desire in a relationship, you might be waiting forever, until you decide that I can’t wait anymore. Now you’re going to go try to find it in someone else,” Urbina said.

Instead, Urbina encouraged individuals to take accountability for their own part in the relationship, and to make the effort to create the extraordinary relationship they want.

“You have to choose to say, ‘If it’s to be, it’s up to me,’” Urbina said. “‘I get to bring the joy in this relationship. I get to bring the fun in this relationship. I get to bring all the excitement that I’m looking for in that other person to bring. I have to bring it first.’”

Even better would be if both partners make the decision to bring this mindset into their relationship, Urbina continued.

“Imagine having a husband and wife both deciding that they’re going to take 100 percent accountability for the fun, the excitement and the joy and the happiness in the relationship,” he said. “Imagine both of you coming from that, 100 percent committed to bringing that.”

Ed. Note: This article is a KHTS Community Spotlight based on the latest “The Alex Urbina Radio Show” on KHTS.

Santa Clarita Life Coach Alex Urbina is one of the leading experts on teen, parent and family relationships. Specializing in personal transformation, Urbina has more than 20 years of experience as a life coach in Santa Clarita. His Life Leadership Training programs have been implemented in schools, youth organizations and transformational centers across the country. Urbina is also the author of “The Inspirational Parent: The Magical Ingredients for Effective Parenting” and host of “The Alex Urbina Radio Show: Helping You Reach Your Full Potential” on KHTS, which airs Fridays at noon. Those looking for a “life coach near me” can contact Urbina today.

Alex Urbina

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