Discovering that a loved one has an addiction to pornography is a very troubling situation. There is no easy way to discover addiction and there isn’t an easy way to cope, but there steps to take before and after discovering such an addiction that can make things easier.
For those who want to learn about self-transformation and beating an addiction to pornography, there are myriad resources readily available.
We have all heard that the first step to overcoming addiction is recognizing its existence. Another, equally important step is being willing to seek out the proper professional help; the kind of professional help that is needed for pornography addiction.
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Once these steps of recognition and reaching out have been completed, it’s important for the person battling the addiction to air out their feelings with their loved ones. Often, this step is underrated, but it’s vital for both parties to address the feelings that arise with the discovery of addiction.
Desert Solace, a residential recovery center based in Utah, explains that families affected by addiction need to “let those emotions come. Feel them, don’t avoid them. Don’t numb, because that’s what leads to addiction.”
They also recommend living in the present. Desert Solace notes that those who are recovering from addiction tend to, “have the regret of the past and the fear of the future. Neither one of those serves anybody who lives there.”
Another step families can take is monitoring the usage of mobile devices. In an age where anyone can access information from anywhere at any time, this step is imperative to keeping oneself and loved ones accountable.
Lastly, Desert Solace teaches the families in their recovery programs about strict boundaries.
They explain that they teach the loved ones of patients that “boundaries are critical and boundaries aren’t punishment — they are for our safety. Because you can’t control anyone, and they get to learn that.”
Desert Solace is an inpatient addiction treatment center in St. George, Utah. Desert Solace specializes in the treatment of pornography and sex addictions. Additionally, they offer treatment programs for gaming, gambling and substance abuse. Their inpatient facility for porn, sex, gaming, gambling and substance addictions features professional, licensed counselors, a top-rated chef, equine therapy and more. Desert Solace believes in involving the clients family in the recovery process.
Desert Solace
1239 West 4200 North
St. George, UT 84770, USA
info@desertsolace.com
(435) 817-1351
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