Santa Clarita single-mom, civil rights attorney and former LAPD sergeant, Christy O’Donnell, is dying from brain, liver, lung, rib and spine cancer and is continuing to fight for the right to have the option of medical aid in dying.
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O’Donnell came into KHTS AM-1220 Monday evening to talk about her experience of fighting to change the law in the state of California for herself and others who suffer from terminal illnesses.
O’Donnell was told she had Stage IV lung cancer two days after she closed escrow on her home in Valencia and one day after her daughter, Bailey Donorovich, turned 20 years old.
O’Donnell woke up the morning after Donorovich’s 20th birthday party, unable read. She went to the emergency room where she was told her fate just hours later.
“Essentially, in a few hours, Bailey and my life had been turned upside down,” O’Donnell told KHTS AM-1220 DJ T. Katz.
When she was diagnosed, O’Donnell had three brain tumors along with the lung cancer. One of the tumors was the size of a golf ball.
O’Donnell had been a non-smoker her whole life and she was a vegetarian, runner, swimmer. She tried to “do everything right.” She was the first in her family’s history to be diagnosed with cancer.
O’Donnell has received chemotherapy almost every week for 12 months, she’s had brain surgery and tried to go for a clinical trial.
“I’ve explored everything, not just in the U.S. but outside the U.S. as well,” she said. “I have survived with cancer, stage IV for one year and one month. If anybody could tell me that there was anything I could do, with medical evidence to back it up, to tell me that I could live to see my grandchildren, I would do it.”
O’Donnell has “interrogated” her doctors to understand what will happen when the chemotherapy stops working. Eight weeks after the chemo stops working, O’Donnell’s liver could shut down.
“I’ve read everything there was about my disease, I’ve become about as medically knowledgable as I can, I’ve researched the new therapies, talked to different people,” O’Donnell said. “Anyway that I die, as it’s been described to me by several oncologists, specialists, neurosurgeons — and I’ve consulted them all — is very painful. If I died from liver failure, especially what will happen is I will stop being hungry, my stomach will become extremely bloated, my legs could become so bloated that essentially the skin on my legs splits, which is all extremely painful.
“If my lung tumor grows faster and that’s the way I die, my lung will essentially fill with fluid, my own fluid, and it’ll be like drowning.”
Donorovich already knew about Oregon’s Death with Dignity law and O’Donnell was familiar with the law because she had lived in Oregon for a short time.
“We considered it, we considered moving to Oregon, my daughter was willing to do it,” O’Donnell said. “I, as a mom, vetoed that idea because her entire support system, really, is here in California and even more so here in Santa Clarita.”
O’Donnell and her daughter decided to educate themselves and are now asserting the California constitution and state law allow terminally ill adults the option of medical aid in dying.
“It’s not that I’m personally afraid of pain for myself only, I wouldn’t have joined LAPD and survived that whole time if I was just personally afraid of pain,” O’Donnell said. “Knowing the pain I’m going to suffer inevitably, there’s no way to get around that, and worse yet, knowing that I have to look into my daughter’s eyes while she sees my body deteriorate and while I’m in pain. There’s not a single child that should have to experience that, whether they’re an adult or not.”
Compassion & Choices is a leading nonprofit organization that offers free consultation, planning resources, referrals and guidance and work to protect and expand options at the end of life, according to the website. Compassion & Choices officials are working with O’Donnell as the suit continues to move forward.
“I hear from thousands of people around the world but it’s only people here in the state of California that can truly express what they feel, what they believe, and if they believe in this issue, even if they decide this is not right for them, if they feel that I or any other person who is terminally ill should this right, they have to let their legislators know that they want this desperately,” O’Donnell said. “Even the fight we’ve fought so far, we have moved mountains.”
O’Donnell is asking anyone in the state of California who feels this suit should continue to move forward, to send an email to their representative. It takes 30 seconds on the Compassion & Choices website to fill out personal information such as a name and email address and then a prewritten letter is sent to every representative in California.
“There are so many warriors out there who have been fighting this battle for longer than I have,” O’Donnell said. “Before Bailey and I decided to speak out, we knew that it was highly unlikely that any legislation would pass because of how long it takes or even with the lawsuit, that there was a good possibility that none of that was going to be done in my lifetime because I have such a short prognosis but very rarely are we, as a human being, placed in a position where you can have a positive impact on your entire nation and possibly the world. So, to think even for one moment of being too selfish to speak out for something that we both strongly believed in, that was not an option for us.”
O’Donnell spent her 47th birthday in a Sacramento courtroom last week, to hear a judge dismiss a case that she and two other plaintiffs have put their hearts and souls into.
“As far as the lawsuit, we have not given up on that.” O’Donnell said. “We expect the judgment be out this week and we will be filing an appeal. We are going to try to expedite the appeal. That will continue whether I am here or not.”
More information about the suit and Compassion & Choices can be found at the website.
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My letter is on the way. My wish for you is peace, strength and a pain free exit into your next journey.
Thank you all for your words of support for my daughter Bailey and I as we continue to speak out in favor of the End of Kife Options Bill in California. And please continue to support our Hometown Station KHTS, who has continued to support this very important issue affecting so many of us that live and work in the SCV. Christy ODonnell
My letter is on the way. I feel everyone should have a choice on what is best for them. You are a warrior and your daughter must be so proud of her mother. I wish you nothing but peace and comfort.
“If my lung tumor grows faster and that’s the way I die, my lung will essentially fill with fluid, my own fluid, and it’ll be like drowning.”
My mom died like this. Mom wasn’t a very brave woman, or so I once thought. She couldn’t ride a bicycle or swim. If my mom could accept this way of dying then so can I. She hid the reality of her probable death event from me. That’s a type of dignity to be proud of.
Dear Christy,
Your fight with this disease and initiative to create change for others that suffer is very close to my heart. I was stunned to run across your article today as I too am a late stage lung cancer patient that lives here in Valencia. I am so sorry for your diagnosis of this disease & all you have had to endure-I appreciate your candor in openly discussing it. The world needs to know about this #1 cancer killer that has become an epidemic-especially for young, healthy ,non-smoking women like yourself.
I am a 9 year survivor of both late stage NSCLC & SCLC.I am beyond grateful to have survived this long. I also run a non-affiliated LC foundation that focuses on the many areas of human rights issues that lung cancer patients deal with. I can connect you with others that are fighting to pave the same path with end of life issues.
We have a global support community, have established the recently celebrated World Lung Cancer Day (WLCD) -August 1 initiative ( an initiative to honor all those impacted by this disease that has been recognized & Proclaimed by the City of Santa Clarita for 2 years running) and are pro-active in creating grassroots initiatives to help & support those impacted by this disease.
I admire what you are trying to accomplish for others, as I spend my days doing the same. It’s a challenging task & I hope to help you gain more support & momentum. I understand your urgency as there is no motivator stronger than being faced with our own mortality.
This is by no means a solicitation and I have no agendas other than to help you & connect you to others with your same goal.
All the best to you Christy- I’ve left my name, phone # & email with KHTS news station in the hopes that we can connect & talk.
I’ve created a support community on FB that is run by & for the people with lung cancer. You can also contact me there.
In 9 years I’ve witnessed many miracles with this disease. I’m praying for one for you; yet I understand & admire your courage to face what may be the inevitable outcome with courage & dignity. Much strength to you. Thank You.
Sincerely, Betsy Thompson
https://www.facebook.com/LCSurvivors